{"id":1448,"date":"2025-12-31T13:24:25","date_gmt":"2025-12-31T13:24:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vibepress.us\/?p=1448"},"modified":"2025-12-31T13:24:27","modified_gmt":"2025-12-31T13:24:27","slug":"he-just-wanted-her-to-feel-brave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vibepress.us\/?p=1448","title":{"rendered":"He Just Wanted Her to Feel Brave"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover aligncenter is-light mycontentblock has-medium-font-size\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--50);padding-top:0;padding-bottom:0;min-height:111px;aspect-ratio:unset;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"186\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-198 size-large\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/vibepress.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-04-at-2.47.25-PM-1-1024x186.png\" style=\"object-position:50% 50%\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" data-object-position=\"50% 50%\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vibepress.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-04-at-2.47.25-PM-1-1024x186.png 1024w, https:\/\/vibepress.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-04-at-2.47.25-PM-1-300x54.png 300w, https:\/\/vibepress.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-04-at-2.47.25-PM-1-768x139.png 768w, https:\/\/vibepress.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-04-at-2.47.25-PM-1-1536x279.png 1536w, https:\/\/vibepress.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-04-at-2.47.25-PM-1-2048x372.png 2048w, https:\/\/vibepress.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-04-at-2.47.25-PM-1-1320x239.png 1320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim-0 has-background-dim\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center my-cover-title has-ast-global-color-8-color has-ast-global-color-5-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-75befd8b10680807078191fbc3fba81d\"><strong>He Just Wanted Her to Feel Brave<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c6141e8cafa7969dc1dc143ae19e5414\">Last year during a class recital, my then 7-year-old son, who has pretty severe ADHD, was trying his best to stay focused. He wasn\u2019t singing, but he was standing on stage \u2013 that\u2019s a win. Right behind him was another student, she was clearly terrified with tears coming down her eyes.<strong> He turned and saw her and said, \u201cIt\u2019s okay. I\u2019m scared too, but we can be scared together.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n    atOptions = {\n        'key' : '9e49f4ce267f7bab92bbdb38b733742b',\n        'format' : 'iframe',\n        'height' : 90,\n        'width' : 728,\n        'params' : {}\n    };\n<\/script>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"\/\/brillianceremisswhistled.com\/9e49f4ce267f7bab92bbdb38b733742b\/invoke.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-69f52403603e411f4e9a8fef739c1f29\">I remember holding my breath in the audience. I was already nervous about how he\u2019d manage on stage, but when I saw that moment\u2014his little hand reaching for hers\u2014I teared up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-b26ee42bded049b188c12b8741e0c40a\">The girl, Mia, looked at him with wide eyes and nodded slowly. She wiped her tears with the back of her hand and stood a little taller. They didn\u2019t talk again after that, just stood quietly, waiting for their part. But the entire time, she kept glancing over at him, like she was borrowing his calm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-481ed112f28a6b14f64fa8512baeec96\">After the recital, a woman came up to me. Her voice cracked as she said, \u201cAre you his mom?\u201d I nodded, worried for a second, and she smiled through tears. \u201cMy daughter has always had anxiety. She\u2019s never made it through a performance. But today she did. Because of your son.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-e0c63f4a62d9b18825e759bc073841ae\">I didn\u2019t know what to say. I just hugged her. Sometimes words don\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5340713f3dfe44f87293961f57792732\">My son, Eli, had been through a lot even before that. Diagnosed with ADHD at age 5, he struggled in ways most people didn\u2019t understand. He wasn\u2019t a \u201cbad kid.\u201d He was just wired differently. Constant motion, constant curiosity, and constant misunderstandings. Teachers said he was disruptive. Parents asked for their kids to be moved away from him. But at home, I saw a boy who built forts for ants and cried when he accidentally stepped on a worm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7b83d7cc2ce26244ff3fed2e93e697ed\">That recital day stayed in my mind. Not just because of what he did, but because it was the first time I saw someone else see him the way I did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-e241c138103c4278e1dce64a97ca6dc9\">A few weeks later, I got a phone call from the school counselor. She wanted to talk about a small situation that had happened during lunch. I braced myself\u2014calls from school rarely brought good news. But to my surprise, she said, \u201cI think you\u2019ll want to hear this.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-36a0e37f2d5c8b737c82cf3815cc8122\">Apparently, another student had tripped in the lunchroom and spilled milk all over himself. The other kids started laughing. Before any adult could step in, Eli stood up, walked over, and poured his own milk on his shirt. \u201cThere,\u201d he said, \u201cnow we both look silly.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-f130a692fff996905f94449713a4226a\">The room went quiet. Then, a few kids started giggling\u2014not at the boy, but at Eli. The laughter shifted. The boy who fell looked up, confused at first, then smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1c98380a6d28f436f6d7448be3c20a1c\">I was stunned. The counselor said she had never seen a child do something so selfless without being prompted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-025275ba2f97292b38deac4ebc0e0a60\">\u201cYour son has this\u2026 natural way of understanding feelings,\u201d she said. \u201cIt\u2019s rare.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-552c379d54b210b1f2e5e8d0baf60a3f\">I hung up the phone and just sat there for a while. Eli wasn\u2019t always easy to parent. There were tantrums, missed homework, impulsive outbursts\u2014but moments like this? They made all of it feel worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1d7a33560f5e0bb6f3ae7a9d7cadd0c9\">That summer, Eli started attending a local camp for kids with learning differences. It was supposed to be a place where he could just be himself without the pressure of fitting in. The first few days were rough. He didn\u2019t know anyone. He told me he missed our dog more than he liked camp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5d9339ed0f61c2bafc0edf72e4d6f063\">But on the fourth day, everything changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4c54ccd15e460cdfdbfe1789f1e0fe80\">He met Thomas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ec977fc8de8571519c4a6d9bc977ad6f\">Thomas was nonverbal, 9 years old, and had autism. Most kids avoided him. Not out of cruelty\u2014just because they didn\u2019t know how to connect. But Eli\u2026 he had a way. I saw it with Mia. I saw it in the lunchroom. And now I was seeing it again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c7a384c32ab9688280891844346d7661\">Eli came home and said, \u201cMom, I made a friend. He doesn\u2019t talk with words but he talks with his eyes. And his Lego skills are amazing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a48d1a2e821fd1adf37a5d41d2dec234\">The two became inseparable. Eli learned Thomas\u2019s cues\u2014when he needed space, when he was overwhelmed, when he was excited. They\u2019d sit under a tree building Lego castles, sometimes in silence, sometimes with Eli narrating stories for both of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6ea64fedb7a47cb6e72b020aa30a7263\">The camp director pulled me aside one afternoon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a40886c79d4644a26ee0af5555caf9d0\">\u201cWe\u2019ve never seen Thomas smile so much. Or engage so willingly. Your son has a gift.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-540cad232a5048087f74f5d78e93bccb\">Gift. That word again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6de67763a1b235c296adbdc80bae2a81\">As the weeks went by, Eli grew more confident. Less impulsive. Something about helping others anchored him. It gave him a sense of purpose. Structure on its own didn\u2019t motivate him\u2014but connection? That lit him up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-737df04594f9bcbc49257c97a91507db\">By the time school started again, I noticed a change. He still struggled, sure. But there was this inner calm that hadn\u2019t been there before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-022f39f51df44a754df9f2472965fa84\">And then something unexpected happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a665a0422735c2261f8adfbc51f9e5eb\">One day in October, Mia\u2019s mom, the woman from the recital, showed up at our door. She looked nervous. She was holding a small wrapped box and a piece of paper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c455718aa4d251249f13212efdf021ec\">\u201cI hope this isn\u2019t weird,\u201d she said. \u201cMia\u2019s been working on something and insisted Eli gets it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3ec41fc8f7b3ff4393109cdb7dc5b091\">Inside the box was a handmade bracelet with beads spelling \u201cBRAVE TOGETHER.\u201d The note read:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5bf62050fb080f1c6751cda11ef5b53b\">Dear Eli,<br>I was scared and you made me brave. I hope we can always be brave together. Thank you for holding my hand.<br>Love,<br>Mia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-26d4e63c7485d86d1c3aa92163f55534\">Eli held the bracelet like it was a medal of honor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0363c5c3ab5263068c60cea4ce6e86b1\">The next day, he wore it to school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-bfd3fbcb9db826d9a9e853debd6b0384\">He wore it every day after that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-700a5a51f610ecbd4653d21d85babcd0\">Until one afternoon in December.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3bd7256a1303d10893a7486fd49b661a\">That\u2019s when the real twist happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a4d5e856fd45e9f30b27cc2f2ac09192\">It was during a cold lunch break, just before winter break. A new boy had transferred into the class. I didn\u2019t know much about him, just that his name was Rami, he didn\u2019t speak much English, and he had recently arrived from Syria with his aunt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1ac128e1de00b209f38fae8423525972\">The teacher later told me that most of the kids kept their distance. It wasn\u2019t cruelty\u2014it was just unfamiliarity. Rami dressed differently. Ate different food. Didn\u2019t understand their jokes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-f7cf05a5639a961b17ff506e25859970\">That day, Eli saw him sitting alone, shivering slightly. Without saying a word, he took off the bracelet and walked over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7f748f17ff31ca9b39c1a1349d3f658b\">He handed it to Rami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-fe227af581a76c776e640da3c396d19b\">The teacher said Rami looked confused at first, then touched the beads gently. When he looked up, he smiled for the first time since arriving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-e8fa45fd9b9f0b79667d392680a461b5\">Later that day, Eli came home without the bracelet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-9d4927a10599f8516dd7e33d7eb963fe\">\u201cI gave it to someone who needed it more.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7225c906d3af47119d39a1202f652163\">He didn\u2019t say much else. But I saw how proud he was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-b8992a2db3bc2702fcd2da4cdcb25339\">That one act sparked something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-25ee1c3f0c7a8939a6cad60a142adf8d\">Other kids started sitting with Rami. They asked him about his food, his language, his country. He began to draw in class, and the teacher hung his art on the wall. Bit by bit, he blossomed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7926cc97cefb8d8dcc5366b3d80854c2\">In the spring, the school held a community night where families brought dishes from their cultures. Rami\u2019s aunt made kibbeh and hummus. Eli ate five servings. When someone asked him why, he said, \u201cBecause it tastes like friendship.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-61b75b51084e44b1dcac69d7782bce12\">That night, Rami stood on stage to present a short poem in broken English. Halfway through, he forgot the words and froze. Eli, seated in the front row, stood up and said, \u201cWe can be scared together.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5cfff4a6aee5d532dcd8ab45528a7269\">The whole room went quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0a7ae767247f1e74a78f0f3b1f6b0f4a\">Then, someone clapped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d4d2fc77ea7514f5a0d3275afee21897\">Then another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-b7b6160a22663a15bb79770540894f00\">Eventually, the whole auditorium stood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-19e261fef038cc20ef0da1aa3db32de4\">Rami smiled and finished his poem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-698252a9a37affac170e3ac38213a292\">I cried.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d56e73e70c6789b089e24efe660ceef6\">Later that night, as I tucked Eli into bed, I asked him how he always knew what to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c29df7dfa5f604a6b94a866c4dde7f42\">He shrugged. \u201cI just remember how it feels to be the one who\u2019s scared. And I don\u2019t want anyone to feel alone in that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-58d02feac819f5413695a0b2c57fd3eb\">Months passed. Eli graduated from second grade. Summer came again. Camp started.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-40d5c9f031c1a7f06e9cb169d30afb1f\">But then, out of nowhere, Thomas\u2019s family had to move. His dad got a job across the country. Eli was crushed. He cried in his pillow that night. \u201cI didn\u2019t get to say goodbye.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-83dc0da9906c9a13f3c8041d769d94ee\">A week later, a package arrived.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2c4c8d189f8791a551eab950fabdd07e\">Inside was a Lego castle and a note written with help from Thomas\u2019s mom:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-192aec05491db3bdb65cff40b8300acf\">Dear Eli,<br>You were my first real friend. I miss you. I built this for you. It\u2019s not finished because I thought maybe one day we\u2019d build it together again.<br>From,<br>Thomas<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-228613bae6333b26352286e10494d4fa\">The castle sat on Eli\u2019s dresser for months. He wouldn\u2019t let anyone touch it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-dc7c976a6332605a9d1170f8d951bc0c\">Then, one afternoon in September, we were walking through the park when we saw a boy crying near the swings. His mom was talking to someone, distracted. Eli watched him for a second, then pulled a small zip pouch from his pocket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7caa2edf68a26bdb3504dce66acde69a\">I hadn\u2019t seen it before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-55ffc7f74ee038dc4d1e1bc94d563dc3\">He unzipped it and pulled out a tiny Lego piece\u2014a castle turret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d106747fe42641edebdfbe2aa13edee7\">He walked over, knelt beside the boy, and said, \u201cWant to help me build something?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-37c459cefbadb63151837b06f6e655de\">The boy nodded through tears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d25ec4cb4c3044f01c18c286ddfffac1\">Later, I asked Eli where the pouch came from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2e22f71932a947ef54422100563a95c4\">\u201cI started carrying extra pieces. Just in case someone needs to feel like they belong.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ddb4a33b892cfc3eee11398216f11daa\">It wasn\u2019t the bracelet. It wasn\u2019t the castle. It was the intention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-089a3eebd5bcfd6d0188c44847fcf208\">A piece of belonging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c7f186843b2bfe54005798a76cee8d3d\">That\u2019s what he handed out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-16a6c182c5fd3acf4469ef69e9a19f8e\">I\u2019ve stopped worrying so much about grades or sitting still or whether he remembers his lunchbox. Those things matter, sure\u2014but they\u2019ll come. What he has? That\u2019s rare. That\u2019s soul-deep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a78fe8fb65b38b6ae10a35ee558298fe\">Last week, we ran into Mia and her mom at the grocery store. Mia\u2019s taller now. Her voice is louder. More confident. She saw Eli and ran over, wrapping him in a hug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6498c4cc55ed58bc36c589f81400db75\">She was wearing a bracelet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-e1518b4fc050eafbdf8d439bbfce7c8a\">Not the original one\u2014she\u2019d made a new one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-771b251ab0168c8988d94f190000052f\">It said: \u201cPASS IT ON.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d6bd1379b6464b1a88d9a41e22c49dff\">Eli smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0f271a8d0569bce660a7a163c60cc2ed\">\u201cI did.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-29a3e50c686c3e8ed239ef4c4a8f72f0\">He turned to me and whispered, \u201cI think maybe that\u2019s what being brave really means. Passing it on.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a45dd98f858681216b577ebdac4ea9b1\">And I think he\u2019s right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-711dd74b512de7c38e49514c0abe2537\">Because courage isn\u2019t about being fearless. It\u2019s about showing up when someone else needs you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-842e053a7928acb1e2c312f40621b296\">One tiny act of kindness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4e374ebb7e9464c3286583ac3fdcf695\">One Lego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-283ea3c20b78d2c8eaab6c7b93e0e89f\">One bracelet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1a8398995fcc1c94b52f4f8843558e11\">One whispered, \u201cWe can be scared together.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-ast-global-color-8-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-34f190464c5e0d6a8f17af1efcc30ab7\">So if you ever feel like the little things don\u2019t matter, remember this story. Remember Eli. 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